Issue No. 15 – Tuesday, September 23, 2025

Hey Fab Fam,

My heart aches. Some days it feels like the world is splintering beneath us — anger, division, suffering, headlines that make our breath catch in our chest. At 51, I’m old enough to know this is not new. It only feels new because the stage has been redressed. The costumes are different, the characters refreshed, and the sets updated. But the play itself? It’s one we’ve seen before—or at least heard of.

History doesn’t march in a straight line. It circles back, handing us the same lessons dressed in new clothing. We swap out the leaders, redraw the borders, shift the headlines, but the themes remain stubbornly familiar. Again and again, the world reminds us of what we have yet to learn. It’s a kind of reincarnation — not of individual souls, but of humanity’s struggles and patterns. The same conflicts, the same fears, the same dreams return to the stage, asking us once more: Will you understand it differently this time? Will you choose a wiser path?

What remains unchanged is this truth: we are one human race. The lines between us are far thinner than we like to believe. The air we breathe does not stop at a border. The food we eat comes from the same earth. The music that stirs our souls crosses oceans and languages with ease. Our joy, our grief, our work, our rest — all of it is shared, whether we recognize it or not.

No matter how hard we try to draw lines, to build walls, to legislate separation, we can’t undo the fact that our lives are intertwined. To resist that truth is to cause ourselves more pain.

If everything is connected, then so are our choices. The words we speak, the policies we support, the kindness we extend, even the small ways we spend our attention — they ripple outward. They remind us that we are not isolated actors but threads in a much larger tapestry.

The question, then, is not whether the play will repeat — it will. The question is how we choose to play our part this time. Will we fall back into division, or will we take our small role and infuse it with compassion, clarity, and care?

At this stage of life, many of us carry both perspective and power. We've lived long enough to see the cycles repeat. We know that despair is easy, but despair is also a dead end. What changes things — however slowly — is the daily choice to act as if connection matters more than division.

That choice lives in the smallest moments: pausing before we share that angry post, asking our neighbor how they're really doing, teaching our children that curiosity about difference is more valuable than fear of it, choosing to see the person behind the politics, the human behind the headline.

We won't rewrite the whole script of history, but perhaps that small rebellion against the script of division is precisely what the world needs. Not another grand gesture or sweeping movement, but the quiet revolution of ordinary people choosing extraordinary compassion. Sometimes, that's exactly how transformation begins — not with grand gestures, but with one person at a time choosing connection over separation, understanding over judgment, hope over cynicism.

With light and love,

Izzie